Thursday 24 December 2015

Charity !? Is it !


So , what do we think ? We are living a comfortable life with abundant food , with shelter on her heads , Still we people are not satisfied with our lives though , we are always complaining of what we don’t have , and then tonight we just "gave" a chapati to a beggar , we felt great " We think ' we did a charity , we donated something' " Really!? Did giving that one chapati even effect our lifestyle ? Did u have had to eat one chapati less from your routine intake because you " donated" one to a poor . I guess most of us have an answer"  No! " Then how can you call it a" charity"  , how can you call it" giving".
Charity or giving is something when you just had one chapati and you thought that someone else needed it more than you , And you just gave it to them , That is Charity or Giving . Today when I look at society I find that people , celebrities which are making crores in a year share some thousands to poor or needy and we call it charity or donation  .. We call those people great ..thats not charity it is sharing .
I accept that they are doing a good job but there is nothing that great about it as one glass of water from sea doesn’t affect sea  . Even trees " share " their shade with us , but they "give" us fruits and flowers , they break a part of them to provide us with these things , That is what we call Charity . Isn't sharing just a law of nature , every living being is sharing in order to sustain , but unfortunately only a few have heart to give , to do the charity .

Today we just have fiddled up with such terms and concepts so much that , we have gone far from reality . 

Sunday 20 December 2015

Destiny

Destiny? don't you think this word comes along with a question mark !? Does it exist ? maybe yes or maybe no ! What is destiny? something prewritten , but if it is all pre written then how does it matter what we do is good or bad , because as they say it is all destiny , so what ever will befall good or bad it will happen , no matter what we do , Right?  Then why do we blame people doing bad deeds and appreciate ones doing good work , bad people are doing so because it's their destiny and vice versa ! In this way we all are doing what is pre written for us , good or bad is all the fruit of our destiny , we shouldn't be blamed only then ! murdrers are so because they were destined to be so , one xyz person was destined to be murdered by that person ... Becoz they also say birth and death are pre written , they are unstoppable ! if we go this way murdrers should never be punished as they did what was in destiny , their destiny made them do so ! Then why doesn't society accepts them ? Just because they came with a bad destiny maybe , but isn't that destiny just written by the same god who wrote good fortune for some and misfortune for some.

Looking at other side of coin Destiny , Ok! so lets think that if we have in our destiny we will sleep with a full stomach , lets not move hands to eat food tonight , because if destiny has it for us it will come inside our stomach on its own .. is it possible? No! if we flip the coin and see the other side , isn't life what we make of it? look at your life , m sure each one of us had got atleast one eye opener in form of an article , some mentor , some friend or any incident that showed you what is right or wrong ! yes we have ... somewhere we all in our concious mind know that what is right and what is not .. isn't it all about choices we make .. Yes Destiny has decided a destination for you but don't you think it has always set two paths for you to reach that destination!? One is right and one is wrong , and the path we chose decides our further course maybe . Aren't we all children of same god then why will he set fortune for some and misfotune for other , Does he has any reason to be bias? Except the reasons we ourselves give to him , by choosing wrong paths !

Think about it!! 

Thursday 17 December 2015

bucket list

sky lanterns
a dance in rain
help poor kids educate them
a mini library in my house
looking at the stars , moon whole night
design my own house
run away from a resturant without paying bill
Paris
escaping from cops
road trip
fireflies
visit a so called haunted place
biggest promise of love in front of greatest epitome of love
plant a sapling together and make it grow
guitar
blow bubbles together
a long walk at 2 in morning
dance on jeena jeena fr me
float diyas in water together 
floral bird cages

own a polaroid camera
make a flipbook for me
camping under stars 

Monday 14 December 2015

beauty ? does it matter !

So , today i was just coming back from an event , and a thought striked me , why were people so obsessed with looking good ? Why do we all somewhere in back of our minds are competing each other for looking more beautiful? Or why do we even judge ourselves or someone else on base of their looks or physical appearence !?
We all are gifts of same creation , when the sweet maker makes sweets some sweets shape out to be thin , some small , some larger than the earlier one but they all taste same , isn’t it!? In the same way we humans although some short some tall , some fat some thin, but you know what there resides god in each of us .I know this is something you might not believe in todays world , but as they say if you believe then its true . There resides some good in each of us , each of us is beautiful in their own way , we just need eyes to see that . Once we start seeing that we will no longer obsess about how we look , or how others look , World will be more beautiful , trust me !
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