Wednesday 25 May 2016

being a daughter

We will marry you off .. said the grandma ,
That night she learnt to behave properly as she was guest in her own house ...

Have u felt the fear ?
The fear of not calling your house your own !?
The fear of being sent away if u fought over something ?
Asked the girl whose ambitions were just shaken by reality ..

Sunday 21 February 2016

The biggest problem

hmm,, so i just realized with all these protests and all going around in the country for different demands to be fulfilled , What is the reason? What is the reason behind this instablity ? I dont know how i may sound but i feel the reason is The feeling of dissatisfaction , I feel the root cause of every evil in society today is Dissatisfaction among people , the continous struggle to get more , Rarely do people say i dont need more i have had enough of freedom , money , resources etc. we always want more , and thats what lead us here . Our leaders did protests but that was something for basic need of that time , freedom of the people , how are we carrying this forward !? By doing protests , sitting on dharnas , creating voilence for every other thing , sometimes just for publicity , or sometimes just to let the other party down . What legacy are we passing on!?
Why do we need a special treatment , a special reservation for a democratic country where on one hand all are equal , and if even by mistake you call someone by their community name or gender "ye jaat hai " "tum ldki ho"  people get offended , and then on other hand you are all there asking for reservations . Seriously! What are you building up !? Why are people with 90% general sitting at home and people with 40% are getting top college because of reservation , Did general people get some easy exam to write or some extra tutions to study !? Why is it that an old man is standing and an 18 year old fit girl is sitting , does she not have legs to stand on , why do you talk of feminism , equality when all you do is ask for reservations and special previliges for yourself ! Why not work on one criteria " Capablity " . Why not be satisfied with freedom walking with equality . Being Satisfied is the need of today's world that people have failed to realize ......

Wednesday 3 February 2016

being alone

Ohh ! look at that girl , she has such a huge group of friends , look at that guy , he is so happy with his girlfriend , Look at me i have none of it , just one or two friends , look at me i am so alone , Am i not good enough!? Am i not good enough to deserve friends , to deserve people in my life!? Ever felt this! I hve noticed our generation going through this hell lot of times , Well The answer is no! Just because u dont have that huge group doesnt mean you are not good enough , it just means you are intelligent enough to chose people in your life wisely , you are intelligent enough to chose your circle wisely , you are wise enough to not live in a world of fake friendships , where you yourself start faking yourself to your own self , you are living a drama free life , aren't you .!? Having people around doesnt mean you are not lonely but having one good person around who cares for you , who loves you,  never makes you feel lonely , And you noe wat !? Make that one person yourself . There is no better soul that can care for you more than your own self . I am not saying dont make friends , dont talk to people , i m just saying make friends wisely choose your circle wisely because that is what will make you .
Dont chose that guy , that girl just because you are alone and you don't have any option , get into it 
when you love your life already and you don't need someone to complete you . Choose them when you "want" them to live , to share , your happiness and sorrows with you . Don't get into any relation just to end your lonliness because when you can't love your own life , your own self how can someone else love you and accept you .
Loving our own self will be our first step to ending all the wrongs and lonliness in life . Spending that quality time with your own self , loving that time is the thing u need to do to end that lonliness forever , trust me , it wont haunt you again ever .... Be your own best friend , be in an honest relationship with your own self and you wont feel lonely again ..